I have missed having that person that loves me even when she is mad at me... Understands me with a freaking look or a giggle. Gets my shit and loves my quirks...
Friendships keep you sane.
My Nanna used to say that Friends are like gardens and you have to tend to them.
So I put it to you... Have you watered your friend today?
- Current Location:OREGON!
- Current Mood: cheerful
- Current Music:Ozzy
Was creating something silly for a rant post, this list if you will. Funny craps but too long for this journal... A short snipit of it...
"Thinks of porn as couples sex therapy, not 'alone time'
Knows that family is more than just the people you are traumatized by
Friends are important to my sanity, and your quality of life!
Heads this warning ~ Changing me can be done, but you run the risk of mutilation
Knows that the bathroom is more like a conference room than a library
Knows animals are tasty, but vegetables are not to be feared
Black is not depressing, and Goth is just a label
Understands the physics of movie time gummy bear catapults
Knows that my mind is a wonderland of randomness, but is willing to over look it
Rock is a genre, not just your pet (his name is Toby)
Understands that your turn signal is not a FUCKING SUGGESTION
Chocolate is good, Sex is great, a foot rub and UT rocks my world
Knows what the hell I mean by UT, there is only 1
Can handle it when I out frag your ass
Knows his mind, or at the very least admit I do
Is aware that among all the voices in his head, mine is the only one that matters"
let me kow what you think
- Current Mood: ditzy
Jason and I in Sedro-Wolley Washington
Josh and I in Ogden Utah.
- Current Mood:awake
- Current Music:Devil Driver
Happy birthday to me!
David bought us tickets to the Iron Maiden tonight! I will try to get a pic of us there in our Maiden wear to post! I am so freaking stoked!! Concert #3 for us!
Thank you Scunci my luv for the sweet gift.
- Current Location:Working
- Current Mood: ecstatic
- Current Music:Maiden (what else ;P)
“Love is patient; love is kind and envies no one. Love is never boastful, nor conceited, nor rude; never selfish, not quick to take offense. There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, its hope, and endurance.
In a word, there are three things that last forever: faith, hope, and love; but the greatest of them all is love.”
Listen to me now, this is simple. Regardless of how we broke up, we did. And no matter what happened or how close we were/are. You can not tell me that you love me and want what is best for me and in the same breath tell me you do not want to hear about how happy I am with another person. There is no friendship here if I can not share my life with you and you can not respect the relationship I am in.
I am not claiming it is easy. I know damn well it is not. But really.
Is your love for me so shallow and selfish as to think only of you? We have both taken into account our ex’s by refraining from loud declarations of our love. Neither of us wanted to be hurtful or disrespectful of what we shared with people in our past. But for gods sake, enough already. It has been over half a year from the end of our previous relationships, and we still can not tell you how great life our lives together are? Will we ever be able to?
You have been with other people, and for some reason that was fine. But the idea of me with another creates friction? Please! Get over yourself. Things between us did not work out. It was not meant to be the kind of relationship that spans the test of time, clearly.
David and I are happy, growing closer each day. We have a great friendship. We get along wonderfully. We are letting the love grow. We do not fight, when we bicker is is short lived and always ends in kisses and understanding. We can agree to disagree on the little things, we agree on the big stuff. He is here in my everyday loving me and there for me. As I am for him. This is a bond that can survive the test of time and space. We are forced apart for my work, but that is only in locations. We talk everyday, we miss each other with that wonderful aching feeling that tells you this is love. We come together every chance we get, at the very least weekends. We can not stay away from each other, and do not want to. We moved to another state to be with each other. This is love and I am going to give it my everything. David has committed to the same.
This is a wonderful thing and should be celebrated. If you have real love and caring for me, then you will find room in your mind for happiness for us. If you can not then you should walk away with the knowledge that what you feel/felt was not love but is the lingering notion of ownership for something that was never yours to begin with. Love comes to you with the best of intentions, but every relationship is just training for the heart. Lessons to teach it what it needs to know to make the one love you end up spending your life with last. Remember the good and be thankful for what you felt when you felt it. Then open your eyes to see that you don’t have it for a reason. Take responsibility for your part in it and try to be happy for David and I.
Those lessons of love teach you how to make your fairytale come true. I am working on mine. Be happy for us. Or let us be.
Here is a pic of the happy couple... When we moved out of our old apartment. All packed up and ready for our future, where ever it takes us.
- Current Location:Tin can
- Current Mood:indescribable
- Current Music:So this is love
- Current Location:Tin Can
- Current Mood: touched
- Current Music:The sweet sound of laughter
My friend’s restaurant made it one year! GRATS KAT!!!
David and I are going to help her celebrate!! Will be AFC for a few days.. but I promise to post pictures when we return! Hoping for a day or two of good weather, we want to play a bit ;P .. *giggles*
Have a great weekend! I plan to!
- Current Location:Work.. soon to be HOME!!
- Current Mood: ecstatic
- Current Music:Sir mix a-lot (heh)
What we need to remember is that it is only ourselves that we have to blame for how we handle what life hurls at us. We take from it what we choose to. The good for what it is, or muddled with regret and pain. Pain teaches us that we are alive, that we have opened up and allowed ourselves to be touched by those we let in. Hurting doe not mean that we should not let ourselves care for anyone again; it means that we did actually care.
So here it is. If you are reading me here, I thank you for being in my life, for helping shape me. Weather your contribution was direct or indirect. Thank you for the lessons that prepared me for who I am and who I am with. Thank you for the experiences that made me the woman he loves. Thank you for the experiences he has shared that make him the man I love. Thank you for pointing out once again that no matter how much it hurts, there is always a new day. Thank you for the knowledge that for every pain and sadness there is an equal love and joy.
Thank you for my David. He is the reward in my life for all the hard lessons. A wonderful man who can love me for all of my strengths and all of my weaknesses (I admit to nothing!) ;P
I love you Scunci. Thank you for seeing me for me, and loving me anyway ;P Thank you for following your heart to me. Thank you for being so very wonderfully you.I am grateful for the wisdom earned to see the good in what I have, and what I have had.
- Current Mood: pleased